Going from 2008 to 2009.

Christmas had passed and 2008 will end after today, the next thing you know, you are waking up making new year's resolution, probably with some same as last year's (again?). Hm..that's a nasty cycle for some of us i believe. Every year passes by so quickly, merely because i still remember how did i celebrate the eve of 2008 and now another new year's eve? Hard to believe but this is the truth, we gotta be happy for living through another year, safely, peacefully, healthy and filled with love.

Today is new year's eve and let me recall what had happened in my 2008:

1. There's a new addition to the Kok family - Chloe Kok, my first niece. With the arrival of little Chloe, i realize how marriage can changes a person's life perspectives and priorities. After my brother got married at a relatively young age, i din't expect him to be so much matured and take his responsible as a husband and now as a father, so well. I must say my brother is a changed man now, he's transformed from a careless, reckless, insensitive boy to a reliable and accountable professional and family man now. I'm so proud of him.

2. I was baptized and officially a Christian now. I got baptized on this year's Easter after attending the RCIA for almost a year. I won't say i'm a changed person but i must admit that believing in Christ has made me a better Samaritan. I feel that there's unnecessary to be mad over something petite or rather, i am more in control of my emotions and temper and i accept whatever happens, happened for a reason. Whenever i feel that God is not there to watch over me and i am suffering in any form, i will think twice before i let my rant out. I'll recall how He had sacrificed for us people and yet He still loves us so much, whatever i'm having now is nothing comparable to what He had suffered for us, thus, i'll feel better. This is just something we must have in life, when we have a perception to analyse things,i think it'll be easier for us to accept things as they are. I don't know, you may call this psychological aversion. But i do feel it.

3. I went to Bangkok for the first time, with the dearest bf. It was a fun trip, not really adventurous as we had almost everything planned before we went and i've done some research for places to shop and visit, i'd say the trip was memorable and worthwhile. I'm looking forward to more travelling with the bf in the coming years.

4. I had an opportunity to visit a breath taking fish sanctuary of a friend. Besides fun and great food with fabulous companionship in this trip, i realize the true feeling of sharing something with the bf, it's through this sharing, i truly know that when you share, you'll enjoy even more, especially when he's truly enjoying also. Afterall, good things are meant to share, innit?

5. I was assigned to be the O.C. for Norman's installation. In the process of planning and preparing, i learned a lot from people around me and was grateful for their unconditional patience and teaching along the process. This is something i could not take for granted and for that, i have to count on my own shortcomings and mistakes and to improve on myself. I was glad that everything turned out to be fine and everyone loved the event.

6. I have a new office premise and we were officially moved during the end of July/beginning of August. The planning for moving was equivalent challenging as the event above, as it involved many people, MANY things and having many new set ups for the new office, it really got me to my nerves. However, i was also glad that everything, everyone is settled in the new office and no complaints so far, besides occasional cursing on the Internet line.

7. I participated in a contest and won for the FIRST time ever and went to a higher level of competition with the club members and enjoyed the experience and learned some valuable evaluations. I think that was me starting to step out from my comfort zone, bit by bit. It's a good sign i suppose.

8. Became another year wiser and had another quaint birthday celebration with the bf, i'm just glad and content to spend another birthday with him, i hope there's more to come.

9. Participated in another function organized by the SDK Toastmasters Club and did a performance, belly dance to be exact for the club. After countless discussion and meetings and emails correspondence and after 10 hours of dance practice, that was a succesful event of the year and i'm just proud to be part of it.

10. Had a second holiday with the bf in KL, it was another great travelling together vacation.

11. Had a home cooked Christmas's eve dinner with the bf and went to the Church as a Christian for the first time. I must say i was shocked when we arrived at the Church, it was nothing like i have seen before. I learned that i must bring my own chair next year.

12. Had my hair repermed and redyed before the end of the year, to have a good hair day for the new year! (a bit lame i know but that's what i did!)

Well, that basically sum up what i've actually accomplished, how i felt, what i thought and my little enlightenment in 2008. It may not sound as one interesting year, but i think it's suffice for me for i am not a greedy girl, i'm content to know that everyone i care about - my family and my friends are doing well and happy.

Not being greedy per Se, i think it's ok to make a new year resolution and some wishes, right? Hm...here's my wish list:

1. Everyone in the family will stay healthy! Especially my parents.

2. Every dear friend of mine will have a great year ahead and that they will succeed in their career, relationship and social life.

3. That the BIG plan will go smoothly and effectively, without having to over stretch our budget yet having it our way.

4. To be a better daughter, sister, gf and employee in Year 2009.

5. Save money.

6. Learn a new skill.

7. Just enjoy my simple life as it is.

Happy New Year 2009!

Me Needs A Bag!

Ah..what do you know? My name does create miracles. I've always been obsessed with bags. I always believe that a bag is the most essential accessory and that it will tell the personality of the person who's carrying it and that a girl shall always carry a bag appropriate to her age, physical appearance, fashion sense and overall look. With all the imitation bags everywhere now, i don't really wanna spend a big chunk of my moolah on the branded bags, unless i think it's reasonably priced or i really, really love it. Otherwise, i think that a bag, not necessary branded, looks relatively lovely on us girls too, it's how you carry it that counts.

Last week, i stumbled upon this wonderful website and my dream for bags has came true since. This website is running like a local boutique that is specialising in BAGS only, shoulder, tote, clutch, sling, you name it, they have it. The price range is also very affordable according to your own budget and their payment method is also very convenient, not credit card only! What i love about them is the whole organization concept of this website that makes you feel like you are in a real shop, browsing on real bags because they have vivid description about the bag and also photos taken from different dimension of the bag just in case you wonder how it looks on the other side of the bag.

The reason to make me feel like staying longer to browse through all the items in a shop/online boutiques or to go through it over and over again is simple, all that it takes is "simple display, well organized and clear instructions/info". And that's what alicewonders.com has! Oh, and also they are always so creative and imaginative with their on going promotions and sales ideas, do drop by to get yourself a new bag for Christmas or New Year! A girl will never have too many bags in her wardrobe (yeah i keep my bags in my wardrobe, if you wanna know).

I've found one of my fav bags (for this year) here, i'm also waiting for their new arrival soon and i really have to shop wisely then. Well, at least i'm officially a member of their "Queen of Clubs" that enjoy some cool benefits and privileges that makes me solemnly swear me needs a bag from http://www.alicewonders.com/ !

of freaky *something*

Ok, this is freaking me out. Whoever i thought of or talked about yesterday, is showing up in front of my face one.by.one. today!

Whatever reason that is, i just hope and pray that everything and anything will go sequacious for the rest of 2008.

On the very same day, i discovered some juicy news. Well, it's merely for entertainment sake but heh, that can spin off to many other things that the boyfriend actually think is too much. Hmm...but i really wanna know is there another lonely boy out there now? I shall dig more.

I also realize that there's no photos recently, no wonder my blog looks so dry. I shall dig for photos. One thing i realize about taking photos nowadays is, i dont have good photo buddy to produce nice photos. The boyfriend is camera shy and it's very difficult to get a nice photo out of us together. *Le sigh no photos then.........

I am hoping that time can go little faster, so that my parents can see Chloe soon and they'll feel good and when they feel good, i feel good too.

Christmas and New Year is around the corner and i seriously need to do some shopping. But then, not like i have anywhere or anything to do during these occasions. * Le sigh...........

This post is boring because i am a boring person. you see.

=(

It's suppose to be sweet and nice, until i ate my own word again.





I don't feel good.

Pet peeve of the day - You are just mere lucky.

** Disclaimer: I've nothing against spoilt brats, this post is merely my pet peeve but if you think i'm talking about you, too bad. I'm sorry you fit in so well. **

I'm living in a place full of spoilt brats. Sometimes, i wonder they are so spoilt, do they still have their brains intact and do they still have the ability to think like a normal person? Because apparently, they do not have to worry abit about their daily life, their present life or their future. All they do is have fun, that's why sometimes i can tie spoilt brats to not having common sense, because they are leading an extraordinary life. pun intended.

Let me see what they tend to do:

1. They would park at wherever they like, blocking your car?? They don't care, as long as they won't walk more than 10 steps to their destination, that's including sitting down.

2. Still about parking because nothing piss me off better than bad attitude on the road, i'm gonna rant all about it, so you see, they would also park at whatever space just to ensure whoever is not blind, can see their cars, even that means double park or blocking your car (again). Don't care.

3. They never believe girls can do better than them, that's why they always stick to kitty cats.

4. A friend once said, if their family business go bankrupt, they can never survive a day after that.

5. They never learn the essentials in life, they do not know what's manner, empathy nor have any sense.

6. They always want to show the world that they are the boss who can pay for everything, kitty likes it.

7. They are a bunch of inconsiderate logs.

8. They are wearing colored lens to screen people around them.

9. They are never faithful to their gf/wife. Too many living examples.

00. They think they are so good looking. Maybe it's self confidence, i'll spare this point.

10. They like to show off whatever is not earned by them which in turn does not earn my respect at all.

I think they should listen to the song "Lucky", with their hearts to make this world a better place.

On another note which has nothing to do with the spoilt brats, i saw this yesterday morning while going to work, what a good example of someone who just underwent lobotomy.

Do you need such a big space for your little car? Blob.